kita selalu baca a real man would be a gentleman, would call you back if you hang up, would be this, would be that
Hakikatnya tidak
if we hang up, they will be pissed off and will not call us back
if we thought they would pay, they wouldn't because lets face it, they don't have money too
if we want them to call us up at 3am just to tell us that they love us, haha DREAM ON.. They're in the dream land themselves
if we are sulking, again, they would actually ignore us because its not worth it to 'pujuk' us after all
If we tell them we want something from them (not talking about materials only here), they will not give it to us
Lets face the reality, a real man is ignorant. that's what my male lecturer told me
He actually said : 'a real man is really ignorant. he is not a real man if he is not ignorant'
and hey, i think it made sense
Because take a look into your own life. your father, your brother, your uncle, your male friend
defition of a real man?
the one who appreciates you, loves you.. MAYBE
who am I to say anyway? HAHA
tapi come on, ada betulnya jugak kan?
sometimes, 'real man' ni pun tau marah, tau sakit hati but that doesn't make them any less of a man
in fact sebenarnya macam lagi manly je?
even if perangai dah follow the book sangat-sangat dah ni (romantic, gentleman, never let the girl pay, etc) tapi tak setia, mata keranjang, semua-semua tu, tak real man jugak kan?
just some thoughts I have before I go to sleep